Montana Memories

Baptist Church in Valier, Montana
"A meeting was called at the C.W. Bruce home for the purpose of considering the matter of extending a call to Mr. McInnes to be pastor of the Baptist Church. Rev. Millan presided. A unanimous vote was cast to extend a call to Mr. McInnes for an indefinate period of time,....It was also decided that since a definite salary could not be guaranteed, that all church offerings above running expenses of the church should be paid to the pastor, together with donations of foodstuffs which would be as liberal as possible." [from the minutes of the Baptist Church in Valier, Montana; June 22, 1934]

"The pastor tendered his resignation at a called meeting following the morning service. He has accepted a call to the pastorate of the First Baptist Church of Havre, Montana. The resignation is to take effect Dec. 1, 1936." [minutes of the Baptist Church in Valier, Montana; Nov 15, 1936]

The following information was obtained from Lucy Skemp: Mr. and Mrs. McInnes were a very active young couple. They built up the youth group at the Baptist Church, organized a choir, had numerous parties, and an active Sunday evening Baptist Youth Fellowship.
In 1936, I started to college, and worked for my room and board at the McInnes home. Mr McInnes was pastoring the First Baptist Church in Havre, Montana then. It was a good place to work. Mrs. McInnes did the cooking, laundry, etc. My main job was to take care of the girls when the parents were out, which was almost every evening. Mrs. McInnes liked to go everywhere her husband did--calling, etc., plus the couple of weekly meetings at the church. They also cleaned the church one evening weekly.
After I left their home for summer vacation (in 1937), Mr McInnes lost his position in Havre. Everybody liked him and the family, but it became known that he had not been to seminary, but was a graduate of Moody Bible Insitute. He was a good speaker and very knowledgeable as to the Bible, but there was the technicality. Why it came to light at the late date I don't know. I'm sure he had a resume when he was called to the church.
They moved back to Valier and Mr. McInnes worked in the Mercantile Store there.

Book Review: Becoming One

Though it tells the amazing story of Ken and Marian (McInnes) Eakins' journey to discovering true love, BECOMING ONE also contains a wealth of autobiographical material. Compiled by Dr J. Kenneth Eakins and his daughter Laurie, it presents an intimate look into their courtship, marriage and eventual struggle with death.

Written in the years following Marian's death from cancer, much of the information comes directly from her own diary entries. Marian wrote regularly in her diary and it's easy to see how much her parent's faith influenced their oldest daughter. Though most of the book focuses on Ken and Marian, there are little snippets about her parents sprinkled throughout. Here are a few:

Following one of their dates, both Ken and Marian lingered in the car in the McInnes driveway as they decided to go steady. "Our conversation was cut short, however, when we spied her dad walking toward the car. He leaned toward the window, a protective note in his voice: 'Come inside you two, everyone else is already in the house!'" (p. 29)

"Marian's mother had often taken trips, usually to visit her parents, leaving one or more of the girls at home with their father." (p.50)

"Marian's dad, always available when needed, came to help us with our move." (p.73)

The book was easy to read yet engaging. It was difficult to put down even without the family connection to hold my interest. There are many references to people and places of importance with colorful accounts of their influence. I appreciated the way Ken brings people to life and didn't just stick to facts. Most of my memories are distant and tainted by childhood, but Ken's account allowed me to see them as real people with struggles, hopes and dreams.

Ken is careful to explain that this is merely their story, not a universal pattern that would work for every couple seeking an "eternal love". So whether you are interested in the family history or the love story, this is a book that anyone would enjoy and gain inspiration from.

Persons interested in obtaining a copy of BECOMING ONE should write to:
TNT
2400 Citrine Way
Santa Rosa, CA 95404