Book Review: Becoming One

Though it tells the amazing story of Ken and Marian (McInnes) Eakins' journey to discovering true love, BECOMING ONE also contains a wealth of autobiographical material. Compiled by Dr J. Kenneth Eakins and his daughter Laurie, it presents an intimate look into their courtship, marriage and eventual struggle with death.

Written in the years following Marian's death from cancer, much of the information comes directly from her own diary entries. Marian wrote regularly in her diary and it's easy to see how much her parent's faith influenced their oldest daughter. Though most of the book focuses on Ken and Marian, there are little snippets about her parents sprinkled throughout. Here are a few:

Following one of their dates, both Ken and Marian lingered in the car in the McInnes driveway as they decided to go steady. "Our conversation was cut short, however, when we spied her dad walking toward the car. He leaned toward the window, a protective note in his voice: 'Come inside you two, everyone else is already in the house!'" (p. 29)

"Marian's mother had often taken trips, usually to visit her parents, leaving one or more of the girls at home with their father." (p.50)

"Marian's dad, always available when needed, came to help us with our move." (p.73)

The book was easy to read yet engaging. It was difficult to put down even without the family connection to hold my interest. There are many references to people and places of importance with colorful accounts of their influence. I appreciated the way Ken brings people to life and didn't just stick to facts. Most of my memories are distant and tainted by childhood, but Ken's account allowed me to see them as real people with struggles, hopes and dreams.

Ken is careful to explain that this is merely their story, not a universal pattern that would work for every couple seeking an "eternal love". So whether you are interested in the family history or the love story, this is a book that anyone would enjoy and gain inspiration from.

Persons interested in obtaining a copy of BECOMING ONE should write to:
TNT
2400 Citrine Way
Santa Rosa, CA 95404

Obituary: Lillian M. (Campbell) Bolen

Lillian M. (Campbell) Bolen of Danville died Jan. 10 at Hendricks Regional Health in Danville. She was 79.
Born July 11, 1927, in Dana, she was a daughter of the late Claude and Geneva Campbell. She was the widow of Buddy Bolen, who died in May 2005.
Mrs. Bolen was a 1945 graduate of Dana High School. She had been a homemaker.
Survivors include a son, Neal Bolen of Danville; daughters Anita Miller of Danville and Alice Bolen of Avon; five grandchildren and a great-granddaughter.
Also preceding her in death were two brothers and three sisters.
Services are 1 p.m. Jan. 13 at Weaver & Randolph Funeral Home in Danville Interment will follow of the Knights of Pythias Cemetery in Lizton.
Calling is two hours prior to services at the funeral home.

Published in the Hendricks County Flyer on Jan 11, 2007

Beulah Francis (Guiley) McInnes


1906, Jun 3 - born
1925, Aug 23 - married Rev. Hugh Melvin McInnes
1930, Jul 6 - Marian LaNette born
1932, Apr 7 - Virginia Mae born
1938, Jul 27 - Margaret Ann born
1946, Feb 14 - Roberta Jean born
1967, Feb 9 - died suddenly from a heart attack, buried in Ormas, Indiana.

Grandma's Picture


Mom was a special assignment RN in Hawaii. She was taking care of the Governor's son. Hawaii was a US protectorate when they were there in the late thirties.
I do not remember her ever saying what the son was ill with but it was a short term assignment, less than a year.
The picture was taken in front of the house where Dad and Mom lived in Hilo.

Dad preached on Sundays to the plantation workers on the windward side of the island. During the week he witnessed and taught Bible Study classes to the US sailors stationed in the islands.

Dad knew some of the sailors that were at Pearl Habor when the Japanese bombed.

Submitted by Rowena's oldest son.

Rev. Hugh Melvin McInnes


1902, Oct 25 - born in Massillion, Ohio.
1925, Aug 23 - married Beulah Francis Guiley.
1930, Jul 6 - Marian LaNette born
1932, Apr 7 - Virginia Mae born
1934, Graduated from Moody Bible Institute in Chicago, Illinois. Became pastor of the Baptist Church in Valier, Montana.
1936, called to pastor First Baptist Church in Havre, Montana, left after a few months.
1937-1939, worked in the Rieder Mercantile Store in Valier, Montana.
1938, Jul 27 - Margaret Ann born
1939, spent summer with family in Canton, Ohio. in the fall attended Northern Baptist Theological Seminary in Chicago, Illinois.
1940, attended Grace Theological Seminary in Winona Lake, Indiana in the fall.
1940, Nov 3 - became joint Pastor of Burr Oak Baptist Church in Albion, Indiana and Wolf Lake Baptist Church in Wolf Lake, Indiana
1942, May 24 - Ordained at Wolf Lake Church
1944, Nov 8 - accepted pastorate at Calvary Bible Church in Dowagiac, Michigan.
1946, Feb 14 - Roberta Jean born
1946, Dec 3 - accepted position with Rural Bible Crusade in Missouri.
1947, Jan 24 - moved to California, Missouri.
1957, Oct - Pastor of Ormas Baptist Church until 1965
1978, Dec 10 - died in Jeffersonville, Indiana and buried in Ormas, Indiana.